69 - Are you a red or green flag in conflict? + the 4 predictors of relationship breakdown and divorce
Stream Episode 70 on Spotify here and Apple podcasts here
Did you know that there are 4 statistically proven conflict & communication styles that the Gottman Institute have concluded to be 4 key predictors of relationship breakdown and divorce? Louise Rumball joins Dr. Tari Mack, clinical psychologist & therapist to discuss the 4 predictors of relationship breakdown and divorce and how these show up in conflict and communication.
They ask - are you a red flag or green flag in conflict?
The pair also discuss:
the difference between criticism and feedback;
why eye-rolling ties into a belief of superiority;
why defensiveness covers up deep rooted vulnerability;
why stonewalling can be so infuriating;
age regression when being triggered
and more.
Recommended listening to support this episode:
Understanding your unconscious attraction & childhood foundations - Episode 29 / 11
Understanding why you are attracted to bad boys / girls - Episode 17
More on toxic conflict - Episode 8
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