58 - We’re having sex, not going to the circus - so why are we out here performing? Ft. sex therapist Massimo Fontana
Our sex episodes are back. Join Louise & OPENHOUSE sex therapist, psychologist, & intimacy coach, Massimo Fontana, as the pair discuss:
Making love in the dark;
The balance between receivership and service in the bedroom;
The impact of pornography and ‘fake it till you make it’ culture on our sex lives today
The fragile ego + why we take things personally if our partner doesn’t orgasm
Why we’re not creating space to explore our sexual self
How to communicate what you like and what you don’t like in the bedroom
How to build a space of intimacy where it doesn’t matter whether you orgasm or not
The importance of being in your body rather than cerebrally being in your head
And the importance of aftercare, safety and non-violent sexual play
Massimo and Louise also chat breath play, blindfold play, creating sex tapes, the Master’s and Johnson Orgasm curve & crying in the shower after sex + the HEARTSPACE trick to bring you and your partner closer together.