58 - We’re having sex, not going to the circus - so why are we out here performing? Ft. sex therapist Massimo Fontana

Our sex episodes are back. Join Louise & OPENHOUSE sex therapist, psychologist, & intimacy coach, Massimo Fontana, as the pair discuss:

  • Making love in the dark; 

  • The balance between receivership and service in the bedroom; 

  • The impact of pornography and ‘fake it till you make it’ culture on our sex lives today

  • The fragile ego + why we take things personally if our partner doesn’t orgasm

  • Why we’re not creating space to explore our sexual self

  • How to communicate what you like and what you don’t like in the bedroom

  • How to build a space of intimacy where it doesn’t matter whether you orgasm or not 

  • The importance of being in your body rather than cerebrally being in your head 

  • And the importance of aftercare, safety and non-violent sexual play

Massimo and Louise also chat breath play, blindfold play, creating sex tapes, the Master’s and Johnson Orgasm curve & crying in the shower after sex + the HEARTSPACE trick to bring you and your partner closer together. 

Steam the episode on Spotify HERE and Apple Podcasts HERE

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