Episode 53 - TRUST - I don't have trust issues, but do I trust them? Discussing No Mans Land - when your anxiety, insecurity and past trauma can show up as distrust or jealously

Welcome to ‘No Mans Land’ - when you have no trust issues in your relationship and no reason to not trust your partner but you struggle with trust & insecurity. It’s a sticky in between area when sometimes you feel uncomfortable and you find yourself thinking ‘do I trust them!?’ or ‘do I not trust myself? Is this the problem coming from me or is it being caused by them? Is it because of a partner or an incident before? Am I being irrational? Are they being irrational? If you can relate, this episode is for you.

Today, Louise is once again joined by Lisa Smith, of TikTok’s ‘So My Mom’s A Therapist’ notoriety to discuss all things TRUST.

They pair discuss: 

⇢ The concept of silence, suppression, the crazy girl and the cool girl
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⇢ How the cool girl and crazy girl show up in our cognition and in our brain patterns
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⇢ Why it’s not needy to have needs but why we don’t act on our feelings because of rejection

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⇢ The physical impacts of ignoring our own needs
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⇢The real of ‘reasonable’ - what can you ask your partner to do to make you feel better?
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⇢ How to understand the difference between overactive anxiety and an overactive nervous system response vs. our gut trying to tell us the truth

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⇢ The secret to soothing your nervous system, alone, and with your partner;
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⇢ How to navigate these situations when our bodies aren’t happy and we don’t feel safe. 

And so much more.

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Connect with Louise on Instagram: @iamlouiserumball

Connect with Louise on TikTok: @thetherapygirl__

Connect with OPENHOUSE on Instagram: @theopenhousepodcast

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Connect with Lisa Smith on Instagram: @somymomsatherapist

Connect with Lisa Smith on TikTok: @somymomsatherapist

Stream So My Mom’s A Therapist on Spotify: here